'Ngeliphi Ixesha Ngaba Kulungile Ukuyeka Umsebenzi Endiwuthiyileyo?'

Ndiqale umsebenzi omtsha kwicandelo lam ngoMatshi. Le yindima yam yokuqala kolu shishino inegama lobungcali elinxulunyaniswe nesatifikethi sam, ke ngoko linyathelo elibalulekileyo kum kwinkqubela phambili yam.

Kwiveki emva kokuba ndiqalile, siye savala ngenxa yeCOVID. I & apos; bendiqala ukusebenza ekhaya okokuqala ebomini bam kwaye zona kwaye bezinjalo, zilukhuni ngokwenene. Ngokwenyani, I & apos; ndenza izinto ezininzi okokuqala-okuninzi kwinqanaba eliphezulu lokucwangcisa kunye nokujonga iqela elincinci. Le ikwayindima yam yokuqala yexesha elizeleyo; Ngaphambili bendisebenza okwethutyana. Andinayo inkxaso eninzi evela kumphathi wam kuba ebexakeke kakhulu yimisebenzi yokusebenza kwendima yakhe kwaye oko kungazukutshintsha.

Oko kwathethi, ndiyazibuza ukuba ukhe wathetha nomphathi wakho malunga neenkxalabo zakho. Ukuba awukwenzi oko, ndingazama kuqala (kwaye kungekudala!) Ngaphambi kokuba wenze izigqibo. Mxelele ngemiceli mngeni obaleka kuyo, cela inkxaso engaphezulu, kwaye ubone ukuba uthini. Ewe, uxakekile-kodwa nkqu nabaphathi abaxakekileyo banokufumana ixesha lokunika abantu inkxaso ngakumbi xa ifuneka. Kufuneka benze njalo yazi iyafuneka nangona kunjalo, ke kuya kufuneka uthethe naye ngaphambi kokuqukumbela akunakwenzeka.

Ukuba uthetha naye kwaye akukho nto iphuculayo… kakuhle, oko kusenolwazi oluncedo. Ngelo xesha uyakukwazi ukuba uthathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo ukuzama ukwenza imeko isebenze, kwaye ukuba ayikakusebenzeli, ungagqiba ngokuzithemba ukuba umsebenzi awungomdlalo ulungileyo. Mhlawumbi ngekukho ukuba besingekho kubhubhane kwaye awusebenzi ukude. Mhlawumbi akunjalo. Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, kulungile ukugqiba ukuba umsebenzi, njengoko kunjalo, awulunganga kuwe. (Kulungile ukugqiba ukuba ngaphandle kokuthetha nomphathi wakho ukuba izinto ziziva zibi kakhulu! Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uzame ukusebenza.)

Akukho nanye kwezi eyenzelwe ukugxotha inkxalabo yakho malunga nokuyeka umsebenzi ohlawula kakuhle kwicandelo lokhuphiswano ngexesha lobhubhane. Ezo ziinkxalabo ezifanelekileyo, kwaye kufanele ukuba ziqwalaselwe. Kwaye, xa iindima zakho zangaphambili zibe zexesha elifutshane, kufanelekile ukuba uhlale ixesha elide kwi-resume yakho ukuze abanye abaqeshi bangazibuzi ukuba uza kubashiya ngokukhawuleza na. Kodwa sithetha ngempilo yakho yengqondo apha. Oku andikruquki emsebenzini wam okanye umsebenzi awuyiyo le nto bendicinga ukuba inokuba yiyo. Lo ngumsebenzi wam undenza lusizi kwaye wenzakalise impilo yam yengqondo. Ukwakha ikhondo lomsebenzi kubalulekile, kodwa ukukhusela imicimbi yakho yezempilo ngakumbi.

Kwaye ndiyakuthembisa ukuba uninzi lwabantu abaphumeleleyo babemile kwaye baqala kwaye babuyela umva kwangoko kwimisebenzi yabo. (Isihogo, kuyo yonke amakhondo omsebenzi abo, ngalo nto!) Eli ayilo thuba lakho lokugqibela lokusebenza kwicandelo lakho. Andifuni ukuba yiPollyanna ngayo, kuba intengiso yomsebenzi ngu kubi kwaye akukho siqinisekiso sokuba uyakufumana umsebenzi ogqibeleleyo. Ukuhamba kude nendima ekunzima ukuyifumana ngumngcipheko kwaye kukho ithuba, nokuba ukude kangakanani, ukuba ukushiya kungakubeka kwindlela eyahlukileyo kule ubuyicinga. Kodwa xa ulinganisa impilo yakho xa uthelekiswa nomsebenzi wakho, khetha impilo yakho.

Ewe, ukuba ungayenza ngokukhawuleza kangakanani loo nto kuya kuxhomekeka kwimali yakho kunye nokuba ungakanani ukhuseleko onalo. Ukuba unokonga kunye / okanye usapho oluzimisele ukubonelela ngendawo ethambileyo emhlabeni ngelixa ujonge umsebenzi olandelayo, ukhetho lwakho luya kujongeka ngokwahlukileyo kunokuba ufuna ukuhlala de ufumane enye into. Kodwa wena unako shiya umsebenzi okwenza ube lusizi.

Fumana iingcebiso ezilungileyo ngakumbi kuAlison Green apha Buza uMphathi okanye kwi incwadi yakhe . Ngaba unayo umbuzo ocinezelayo onxulumene nomsebenzi wakho? Ngenisa usebenzisa le fomu .