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Kukho intsomi ethi kufuneka ube unomdla kwaye usebenza nzima ukuze ungene kwisikolo se-Ivy League. Ndaphoxeka kukufumanisa ngenye indlela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho abantu abamangalisayo, kodwa unabantwana abanokuya kwi-Ivy nokuba yintoni-abantwana be-CEO ye-Fortune 500, iinkwenkwezi ze-movie, ubukhosi baseMbindi Mpuma. Kukho iziqwenga ezininzi kutsha nje ezichaza ukwamkelwa kwe-Ivy League ' I-sham 'kunye' nokuxhonywa ngenxa yelungelo , 'Kwaye & abafundi abasentloko bahleka bethetha izinto ezinje,' Andizukuba lapha ukuba utata zange anikele. ' Ke, kubo bonke abantwana abasuka kwizikolo zikarhulumente, abasebenza nzima, nabangazange bangene naphi na — abo bakubonileyo.
I & apos; ndisaxakwe yindlela abanye abafundi endifunda nabo abenzanga ngayo. Ungene njani fuck? Ndithe nqa. Kodwa iyavakala. Uninzi lwabantwana luya kuba lunomdla kwiphepha kuphela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, banokuhlala kumazwe amane ahlukeneyo kwaye bahamba baya kuma-20 ngaphezulu, kodwa loo mava athengwa.
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Ndithembe, abantwana be-Ivy League badidekile njengaye wonke umntu. Ukuziqhelanisa rhoqo kuthetha ukuthatha inyathelo ubuye umva, kodwa ii-Ivies lilizwe apho kuya kufuneka uqhubeke uye phambili nokuba ungathini. Ezi asizondawo apho unokukhahlela khona kwaye 'uzifumane' kwiminyaka emine, kuba ukuba uyeka ukuhamba umzuzwana, ke sele ushiyekile ngasemva.
Ukuba uthweswe isidanga kwi-Ivy kwaye awunamsebenzi unenzuzo elinde wena, ayihlazo. Uninzi lwabafundi aluyihoyi iminqweno, bayayikhathalela iminqweno yabo kunye nezinto abazithandayo-izinto ongenako ukuzibhala kuluhlu lweemfuno zomsebenzi-kwaye uphakame uphume uphume ngesuti, ngoncumo, nangomngxuma ngaphakathi. Esi sesona sizathu sokuba eyona nto idumileyo iphambili Iivies luqoqosho lwezezimali -KwaseBrown, isikolo esaziwa ngokwenza amabakala ngokuzikhethela, sinabafundi abagxalathelayo ukuya kufunda 'isayensi engalunganga' ukuze babenako ukufumana imali baphumelele.
I & apos; ndibone abantwana abangena njengeemvumi ezinetalente emangalisayo bencama baya kwimali. I & apos; ndibone abantwana abafuna ukuba ngoosomajukujuku bayancama bangene kwimali. Kwii-Ivies, amaphupha athatha isihlalo esingasemva sodumo kunye nozinzo.
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Bambalwa kakhulu abantu abafuna ukuba abanye baphumelele, ngakumbi kwiiklasi ezibekwe ngokwegophe, apho wonke umntu angenakho ukufumana i-A imeko-bume enqamlezileyo izala imvakalelo yokhuphiswano, hayi intsebenziswano. Ngexesha lam elisandul 'ukuqala unyaka, owam umtyhi wakhupha into malunga nomhlobo wakhe. Ndiyathemba ukuba akazukufumana banga liphezulu, akazange afunde nzima njengam, utshilo. 'Kodwa ngaba ayingomhlobo wakho osenyongweni lo?' Ndithe. Uye wandijonga waphendula wathi, 'Utheni ngoku?'
Uninzi lwabantu luyadimazeka yindlela abantu abangenabuhlobo abalapha ngayo, ngelixa enyanisweni, wonke umntu enganqabisekanga. Unyaka nonyaka nesivuno sabafundi be-Ivy League kubandakanya amakhulu e-valedictorian, iimvumi ze-jazz zikarhulumente zonke, iimbongi ezithetha amagama, abaphumeleleyo kwi-Science Olympiad, abasunguli abangenzi nzuzo. Uninzi lwazo lwaphathwa njengoothixo kwisikolo esiphakamileyo kwaye zange khe kujongwane nokungabi ngoyena ukhanyayo kwigumbi.
Wonke umntu ubonakala ngathi une-shit kunye kodwa ukothuka ngokweemvakalelo phantsi komphezulu. Ukhuphiswano lwabafundi lokubaleka ngaphezulu kweeklasi, uqeqesho, kunye neeklabhu kunabanye abantu. Kukho inkcubeko yokuthelekiswa kobungakanani bendlela ozuze ngayo iiyure zokulala, zingaphi izabelo ekufuneka uzenzile ngobo busuku. Kwaye kwinyani, akukho nto ibalulekileyo, kodwa abantu bancama impilo yabo yengqondo ukuze babe yinkosi yala mfumba yamathambo.
Ngentsasa, unokubona abantu bexubha amazinyo abo kwilayibrari, begqibezela ubusuku bonke. Ngobusuku bempelaveki, ithala leencwadi ligcina amagumbi apheleleyo abantu abaleleyo. Ndibona abantwana endifunda nabo bengcangcazela ngenxa yoxinzelelo. I & apos; ndibone abantwana beguqa ngamadolo kwaye bavale iindlebe zabo, bekhala ngephepha elifutshane. Amantombazana awayekade emhle akhangeleka eyoyikekayo ngokungabikho kokulala, ukutya okungafanelekanga, kunye nendlela enecaffeine eninzi. Nanini na xa ndibuza abantu ukuba banjani, kunqabile ukuba 'ndilunge.' Ndifumana isandla esineentliziyo ezintlanu kunye nokujonga ngasemva kwamehlo adiniweyo. Ndibambelele. Lo mbandela wokungalali ayisiyiyo nje ingxaki e-Columbia-ngokophando olwenziwe ngo-2012 kwizidanga zangaphantsi, Iipesenti ezingama-58 zabafundi basePrinceton Ndiziva ndiphumle kuphela iintsuku ezintathu ngeveki okanye ngaphantsi.
