Iifoto ngoncedo lukaJillian Venters noMaryUJillian Venters, ohamba 'ngenenekazi lembeko,' ebengumntu obhinqileyo kubomi bakhe bonke — nto leyo ethetha ukuba yena & ampos; bachongwe njenge goth phantse ixesha elide njenge & apos. Ukhumbula ukubukela i-subculture iguquka kwi-80s yayo: 'Phantse yonke imifanekiso yeyabantu abakwishumi elivisayo kunye nama-20. Unayo le waif-y, amantombazana amancinci amhlophe agqityiweyo anolusu olubaleka emangcwabeni kwaye ajongeka emsulwa.
Namhlanje, uhlala eSeattle kwaye uqhuba ibhlog yakhe eyaziwayo Isikolo seGothic Charm , ehlawulwa kwiphepha lasekhaya 'njengesikhokelo esibalulekileyo se-goth kunye nabo babathandayo.' Ukusukela ukuba yena yingcali kwicandelo, abasetyhini abakwiminyaka engama-40, 50, nama-60s — abadala, njengokuba ebabiza njalo-ngamanye amaxesha bazomthumelela imibuzo nge-imeyile malunga nemibuzo malunga nokuba kwenzeka ntoni xa wena & apos ungasekho kwiminyaka yakho yobutsha kunye ne-20, kodwa usaqhubeka ujikeleza amangcwaba (ubuncinci kwinqanaba lokwemba). Abanye abadala bayambuza malunga neyona eyeliner ilungileyo kumagwababa & apos; iinyawo; abanye bayazibuza ukuba bayeke nini ukusebenzisa iNqaku elimnyama 1. 'Uninzi lwabo luyabuza ukuba ngaba bayathanda na mdala kakhulu Ukubonakala goth, 'uVenters uxelela ngokubanzi.
Funda ngokugqithisileyo :AmaGoth aseHawaii
Impendulo yakhe, ewe, iyakhwaza. 'Sisisizukulwana sokuqala nesesibini ukuya kwi-goth, kwaye kufuneka sime ngelithi kukho indawo yabasetyhini abadala kule nkcubeko, utshilo egxininisa. 'Asizenzi izinto ekufanele sizenze ukuba singabantu abadala kakhulu.' Abathengisi bahlala bekhumbuza abasetyhini abangama-40 nangaphezulu ukuba njengabakhokeli bentshukumo ye-goth, ngabo ababeka umgangatho wokubonwayo.
Uzalelwe kwinkangeleko kaSiouxsie Sioux, Rozz Williams, Morticia Addams, kwaye phantse kuyo nayiphi na inoveli yama-gothic yase-Bhritane kwinkulungwane ye-19, isitayile se-goth savela kule minyaka ingamashumi amane idlulileyo. Ukusuka kwimveli yesinxibo esimnyama, iibhatyi zesikhumba kunye nezikipa zebhendi ukuya kwiiyantlukwano ezinje ngekhekhe goth (Venter & apos; s isitayile esikhethekileyo, esidibanisa ikakhulu ikhabethe elimnyama kunye neepinki ezipinki), i-cyber goth, impilo goth , Kunye nemall goth, goth ibandakanya ukudityaniswa kweefashoni ezahlukeneyo, nganye nganye icofa kwi-macabre kwaye ihlala inovuyo. Ukukhetha kwefashoni njengokuthambisa kwamehlo amnyama, ivelvet, isikhumba, ii-corsets, kunye nayo nayiphi na into enamalulwane ziimpawu ezibonakalayo zomdlalo we-goth.
IGoth, eyavela kwindawo yamatye e-gothic e-UK kwii-70s's, yayiqale yabonwa njenge Inkcubeko yolutsha , Ukutsala abantu abakwishumi elivisayo abaneminyaka engaphaya kweshumi elivisayo nabasekuqaleni kweminyaka yama-20 abaye bathambekisa kumculo onamaculo amnyama, ngakumbi eengoma eziveza ezabo izimvo zokwahlukana. Yayimanyanisa into engaqhelekanga kwaye engaqhelekanga, kunye nengcwangu, kunye nezizwe zabantwana abathandanayo abathanda iincwadi zevampire kunye neefilimu ezoyikisayo. Ukusukela phakathi kwiminyaka yee-80s, nangona kunjalo, iigothgoths ezinje ngeVenters ziyigcinile indlela yazo yobuhle, zingaze zibuze indawo yazo kwi-subculture.
I-Trystan inxibe goth. Ifoto ngoncedo lwesihloko
Ukuya ku-2011 ukufunda Ukusuka eLondon School of Economics kunye neNzululwazi yezoPolitiko uqaphele ukuba uninzi lwama-goth angena kumashumi amathathu, amashumi amane, kunye namashumi amahlanu azabalaza ukulungelelanisa 'ubuqiniso bobuqu' kunye nokuqonda kwabo ubudala obufanelekileyo; oonobangela ababenegalelo elikhulu ekunciphiseni 'ukubonakala' kukukhula kokubaluleka komsebenzi, ukusekwa kobuhlobo bexesha elide, kwaye, ngaphezulu kwako konke, ukuqala kobude bexesha… ubudlelwane, 'ngokutsho kwesifundo kunye neapos Iziphumo Le yinto iVenters eyazi kakuhle, kwaye ngokukhawuleza unikezela isisombululo sokulinganisa umsebenzi we-goth. Enye yezinto endihlala ndizichaza ebantwini kukuba kukho into ebizwa ngokuba yiCorpGoth: ukuthatha iimpahla eziqhelekileyo, eziqhelekileyo kunye nokongeza into emnyama, utshilo. Ucebisa ukuba, ukuba abantu basetyhini bafuna ukugcina ukujongwa okungathandekiyo emsebenzini, ukunxiba bonke abamnyama kunempembelelo, nokuba wena & ampos sinxibe ihempe enamaqhosha okanye iblazer. Unokubhangqa ishishini lakho ngokungaqhelekanga kunye neenkcubeko ezifihlakeleyo zenkcubeko yobucwebe.
UTrystan, umbhali wentengiso oneminyaka engama-48 ubudala waseSilicon Valley, uzibiza ngokuba 'yi-ofisi ome njengeqanda.' Emva kwekholeji, waqala wayilahla imibala emnyama awayeyithanda xa wayeneminyaka eyi-20s kuba wayefuna ukubambeka phantsi aze aqeshwe, kodwa ekugqibeleni wafumanisa ukuba ukusweleka kweenwele zakhe imibala eqhelekileyo kunye nokunxiba imifuno kunye neblues yayingeyiyo eyakhe. . Ndafumana umsebenzi endandiwuthiyile malunga nonyaka kwaye ndandibuhlungu kakhulu. Bendifana, & apos; Lo msebenzi uyafunxa. Ndicaphukela yonke into. Andenzi nto imnandi, 'uyakhumbula uTrystan. Ekugqibeleni wabhalisa kwisikolo se-grad, efumana umsebenzi we-dot com kwi-90s emva kwexesha apho waziva ekhululekile ukunxiba i-goth, kwaye enxibe njalo ukusukela-kodwa wenza ulungelelwaniso. Emsebenzini, uyayeka ukunxiba iipitikoti zakhe eziqhelekileyo, ii-corsets, kunye ne-eyeliner ejikelezayo, ikakhulu kuba ukufumanisa kuyindinisa ukuchitha ixesha elininzi elungiselela kusasa. Endaweni yoko, uzinxiba iisuti kunye nezithende ezinamakhonkco kunye nezikhonkwane zokakayi. 'Ukuba ngumntu omdala goth yi & apos; khetha iimfazwe zethu & apos; uhlobo lwento. Kufunda kwaye nini kwaye phi apho unokuba nexesha kunye namandla okwenza izitayile ezinkulu, eziphambeneyo.
Ukuba ngumzali akuthethi ukuba usweleke kwiminqweno yakho okanye kukusweleka njengomntu.
Abanye abadala badibana nolunye uxinzelelo lwangaphandle oluyalela ukuba baqhubeke okanye banxibe i-subculture yabo ethandekayo kwimikhono yabo. Ngenxa yoluvo lokuba ulutsha-lweenkcubeko lulutsha olunobomi beshelfu, kukho inkolelo yenkcubeko exhaphakileyo yokuba i-goth okanye i-punk sisigaba nje-ayisiyonto uqhubeka nayo njengomntu omdala-enokwenza ukuba kube nzima ukuba ii-goths ezindala kunye nabantwana zamkelwe ngomnye, abazali abagcinayo. Kodwa uVenters uziva ukuba okanye ukuba nabantwana akuthethi ukuba abantu basetyhini kufuneka batshintshe ukuba bangoobani. 'Ukuba ngumzali akuthethi ukuba usweleke kwiminqweno yakho okanye kukusweleka njengomntu, utshilo uVenters. 'Ndinabahlobo abangama-goths abangabazali, kwaye bona & apos banqabile ekuboniseni abantwana babo ukuba yile nto ndinguye, zizinto ezibalulekileyo kum, kwaye ndilapha ngenxa yakho kwaye ndiyakuxhasa . '
UMary, umdala ongumdala waseKhanada, uthi wayejamelana noburharha nokuba ngumama iminyaka embalwa. Emva kokuba efudukele eOntario ngowama-2000 kunye nonyana wakhe omncinci, imikhono yakhe engaphucukanga kunye nesinxibo esimnyama konke kwaba lucelomngeni koomama abanxibe imibala ngakumbi kwisixeko esigcina izilwanyana. 'Ndikhumbula omnye woomama esithi, & ampos; Ungumama wamaGoth? & Apos;' Utsho uMary, 'kwaye bendifana, & apos; Oo, ngaba yindlela abajonga ngayo kum? & apos;' Uzive ekhathazekile ngesiquphe, kwaye wazama ukunxiba ngakumbi njengoontanga bakhe abatsha: 'Khange ndicinge nyani ngendlela endinxibe ngayo de lo mfazi athethe loo nto kwaye lonto indenze ndatshintsha isitayile sam kancinci. Ndizama ukungena kwisihlwele soomama abancinci. Kodwa naxa nditshintsha isimbo sam, andizange ndingene. Nokuba ungatshintsha iimpahla zakho, awunako ukutshintsha umculo ophulaphulayo okanye iincwadi othanda ukuzifunda. Ke awusoze ube nendawo efanayo kunye noomama bebhola ekhatywayo. '
Ngelixa umdla wakhe ungakhange uhambelane nabanye abazali, ukuziqhelanisa nokubukeka 'kukamama' oqhelekileyo, uMary wehlise isinxibo sakhe samaVictorian, wasifaka endaweni yento awayeyibona njengempahla efanelekileyo yobudala. 'Ndinxibe umbala ongaphezulu, nangaphezulu kwayo nayiphi na imeko yakutshanje. Ndiphinde ndasebenza kwivenkile ethandwayo, ngenxa yoko bendisoloko ndibona izinto ezintsha zingena. Phantse iminyaka emine, uMary waphinda wayiguqula indlela yakhe. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, njengokuba unyana wakhe ekhula, waqonda ukuba iimpahla ezimibalabala azimlungelanga; Waqala ukunxibelelana kwakhona nesimbo sakhe sangaphambili. 'Ayikhathalelanga nokuba abanye oomama bacinga ntoni ngam. Ndivele ndaphindela ngqo kulendlela bendiyiyo. Ndiziva ndikhululekile xa ndinxiba ngendlela endifuna ngayo. I-apos; ingaphandle ichaza ngaphakathi. '
Ukufumana amanye amabali anje, Bhalisela iNcwadana yeendaba
UNatalie, oneminyaka engama-36 ubudala waseLancashire, eNgilane, uthi ngamanye amaxesha uziva uxinzelelo olufanayo lokwehlisa isinxibo sakhe, kwaye uyasokola mihla le malunga nokuba angawasusi na amabhanti kunye neecorsets zakhe endaweni yobudala- 'iimpahla ezifanelekileyo. 'Kwiminyaka yam yobutsha,' utsho uNatalie, 'bendiye ndiphume ndinento eyelinayo epheleleyo, oothayithi kunye neziketi ezinkulu ezidadayo, ii-corsets, ukuya ezivenkileni. Ngoku nditshintsha isinxibo sam kancinane kuba izinto ozinxibayo ziya kufumana impendulo egwenxa. Ukugqibela kwam ukufumana uluvo olubi, bendinxibe iperi yeethayithi ezimnyama nezimhlophe ezimdaka kunye nelokhwe yevelvet kwaye umntu othile wandikhwaza, 'Ufanele ube neentloni ukunxiba ngoluhlobo.' & Apos; Okwangoku, uNatalie uzimisele ukunamathela kubuhle bakhe obumnyama, kodwa imibuzo enje, 'Ndizokuyeka njani ukunxiba ngoluhlobo?' Kwaye 'ngaba likho ixesha apho i-apos ithathwa njengedala kakhulu?' Sisamkhathaza yonke imihla.
Kwimbono yeVenter kunye neapos, awusoze umdala kakhulu ukuba ungaba goth. Ukhuthaza abantu basetyhini ukuba bamkele umbono wokuba kunye nobudala kuza ulwazi, amandla, kwaye ungakhathali nokuba abanye abantu bacinga ntoni. Kwaye ngoxinzelelo lwentlalo kubafazi ukuba babe ngabanakekeli, abondli, kunye nokungabonakali okudlulileyo kwiminyaka ethile, iVenters izimisele ukuthatha indawo, ikhuthaze amanye ama-eldergoths ukuba aluphele ngokubonakalayo nangobunkunkqele kangangoko. 'Mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba andifanele ukuba nepinki eqaqambileyo kunye neenwele ze-burgundy ndineminyaka engama-48, utshilo uVenters. 'Noba yintoni. Luvo lwakho olo. Andikhathali. '