Ewe, awuyi kukruquka.
Ukuthandana
‘Uthe wayemkhulu. Ngokweemvakalelo, ndaziva ndingcolile kancinci kwaye ndicaphukile. ’
Ngaba ikhona indlela 'elungileyo' yokwenza le ncoko, okanye isoloko yoyikeka?
Akusoloko kuba befuna ukukufihla njenge troll kwigumbi elingaphantsi.
Ulawulo lwezitrato ezitalatweni kunye ne-freak-freak kwiimakhishithi
Ukungabi namava okuthandana kwi-20s yakho engasemva kunokukhokelela ekubeni uzibuze ukuba ngaba kuyinto eqhelekileyo na leyo. Ke ... ingaba kunjalo?
Ingqungquthela entsha yeendawo zokuthandana zaseUkraine zihambelana nabaxhasi baseNtshona kunye nabasetyhini bendawo, banikezela ngeenkonzo zokuguqulela kunye neengcebiso zokudlala ngothando malunga ne- $ 3,500.
Ukuthandana ngelixa ukudana ekuhlaleni kunokubandakanya iimfihlo ezinamanzi, izinto ezintle (kunye nehempe) iingxoxo, ubugcisa kunye nezinye iindawo ezinomdla.
Nje ukuba uyazi ukuba kungena phi kuyo, ayothusi loo nto.
Ukuqhawula kunzima ukwenza-ngakumbi xa kubandakanya ukuphuma, ukutshintsha amagama kwisivumelwano, okanye ukuthatha isigqibo sokuba ngubani ogcina izityalo zendlu.
Sasinemibuzo yeLogan Ury, umlawuli wobudlelwane besayensi kwindawo ethandwayo yokuthandana.
Sithethile no-Ihab Yassin malunga nokuba kunjani ukuhlala kwihlabathi elakhelwe abantu abade.
Isikhokelo esiluncedo kubantu abasebatsha abadibeneyo.
'Kwaye nceda wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukulibala malunga nomntu okunike le nombolo, kuba sithembe, sele belibele ngawe.'
Ndifunde njani ukuyeka ukukhathazeka kwaye ndithanda iiwands ezinkulu.
Ngokutsho kweengcali.
Nokuba ithini na imeko yakho, ngamanye amaxesha ufumana umntu, nobabini niziva unxibelelwano lokwenyani, kwaye ungatsho ukuba inkampani yabo iya kubucebisa ubomi bakho.
'Khange ndiphume egumbini ukuthandana nomfana onxiba njengentombazana' yinto eqhubekayo.
Ndiyabulela kuThixo ukuba awungumfazi, kuba umbi kakhulu akukho ndoda inokuze ikuhluthe.
Nasi isicwangciso esingcono sokusekelana ngeenkwenkwezi kunokuba 'yintoni umqondiso wakho?'