Esi siqwenga siyinxalenye yothotho lwamabali abhaliweyo ngumbhali UKarley Sciortino Ukubuyisa amava akhe okuphanda ngesondo kumdlalo weViceland Slutever . Rhoqo ngolwesiThathu, siza kupapasha amangeniso amatsha okuhamba nesiqendu ngasinye somboniso.
Isiqendu Esonwabisayo sokuphela kukaScutever sibhala ngokufuna kwam ukufumana indoda eza kundikhathaza ngegama lokulingana ngokwesini.
UAdri Murguia, ngubani & ampos; umvelisi olawulayo womboniso, kwaye ndiye ndaqala ukuthetha ngendlela ekuphambeneyo ngayo ukuba uninzi lweenkonzo zesondo ziyafumaneka emadodeni kwaye bambalwa kwabasetyhini. Ngelixa amadoda anokuthi angene kwindawo yokuthanjiswa aze afumane umyalezo 'ophelayo owonwabisayo', apho iseshoni iphela ngomsebenzi wesandla, abasetyhini abanakubonakala benokhetho olufanayo lokuhlawula umntu ukuze amkhuphe. Saqala ukuzibuza ukuba ingaba kungenxa yokuba abasetyhini bengenamdla kangako ekuzithengeni, kungoko kukho & imfuno ezingekhoyo kangako, okanye ukuba bekukho into yokuba amadoda angazithembi okanye angakhululeki ukubonelela ngenkonzo. Uyazi, nokuba amadoda ayesoyikiswa ngumbono wokunikezela ngesiphelo esonwabisayo okanye inkonzo yesondo emfazini ngenxa yobuxoki obudala bokuba abantu basetyhini banzima ukwenza i-cum kunamadoda kwaye ukuba isini sabasetyhini sinzima ngakumbi kunesamadoda. Ngaba le yayiyinto eyoyikisayo kangangokuba amadoda awakulungelanga ukuyibhalisela loo nto?
Ngelixa siphanda, safumanisa eli nani ukuba kukho i-1,200 evuyayo yokuphelisa i-massage parlors kwisiXeko saseNew York. Kodwa ngaphandle kwenani elikhulu, baphantse babodwa ababonelela ngeenkonzo zesondo emadodeni. Siqikelele-kwaye siyathemba-ukuba kukho inkonzo yokunikezela ngesondo ngaphandle kwabasetyhini, bambalwa kwaye kuncinci ngaphandle.
Ke simisele kumnqweno wokufumanisa ukuba zeziphi iintlobo zeenkonzo ezikhoyo ezenzelwe abantu ababhinqileyo, ezazibandakanya mna ekuzameni kwam uninzi lwabanikezeli ngesini besilisa.
Kuqala, bendixhomekeke endodeni egama linguAsh esebenza kwiwebhusayithi ebizwa Iingelosi zeCowboys4 Okwangoku yeyona nkonzo inkulu yokuhanjiswa kwamadoda eMelika kwi-Intanethi. Ndihambile nomhla kunye naye saza sathetha malunga nokuba kuthanda ukuba yindoda ekhapha-yonke into ukusuka kubiza malini ukuchitha ixesha kunye naye ukuya kuthi ga kubathengi bakhe abaqhelekileyo, kwinkonzo yakhe. Endikufundileyo kukuba nditsho nokuhamba kwendoda, kunye ne-orgasm ayiqinisekisi.
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Emva koko, ndaya eSan Francisco, apho ndadibana noTom, umntu osebenza ngesondo, okuthetha ukuba uluhlobo oluthile lwabafazi phantsi kwengubo yonyango. Inecandelo lezonyango apho yenza khona le nto ibizwa ngokuba yimephu yelungu lobufazi apho ikubeka phantsi kwitafile yokuthanjiswa kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ichukumisa ubufazi bakho ngokuthe chu. Ngaphezulu kweeseshoni ezininzi, nisebenza kunye ukuba ngawaphi amalungu obufazi bakho abuthathaka, zeziphi iintlobo zokuchukumisa ekuvusayo, zeziphi iintlobo zoxinzelelo ozithandayo, kwaye zeziphi iindawo zelungu lobufazi eziziva zilungile. Uhlobo lwe-apos, olunjengokucamngca nge-orgasmic kodwa ngokuthatha kancinci inqaku.
Ngokuqinisekileyo bendingathandi ukuba, Ewe, oku kuyaphumla ngokwenene ndiziva ngathi andixhuzulwa. Iipos ngaphezulu kwesithuba sokuzifumanisa kwilungu lobufazi. Kodwa mna & apos; andikaze ndibekho kumava anje apho, ngokucotha kakhulu, ufumanisa ukuba: Ngaba udonga oluphezulu lobufazi bam lubuthathaka kunodonga olungezantsi lobufazi bam? Awazi nje, awuqheleki, uhlala ulufaka nje ngaphakathi kwaye ungacingi ngalo. Ke loo nto ibinomdla kwinqanaba, kodwa ibingeyiyo isiphelo esimnandi endisifunayo. Ndifuna into efunyanwa ngabafana-apho ungena nje kwindawo yokuthanjiswa, umntu othile uyakudlakazelisa, emva koko uhambe. Le yayiyindlela ebandakanyeka ngakumbi kuloo nto.
Emva koko kwafika awona mava anqabileyo endakha ndanawo ngelixa ndisenza umboniso bhanyabhanya. Saya kwiqela lenkxaso yamadoda ngokukodwa malunga nesini sendoda. KwakuseSanta Cruz, kwaye babexoxa nge-orgasm yabasetyhini.
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Kwakunomdla ngokwenene kuba sikwazile ukungena kulo mbuzo: Ngaba amadoda awaboneleli ngezi nkonzo kubafazi kuba umbono wokunika umntu obhinqileyo uyothusa? Onke la madoda ayeyinyani kwaye evula malunga nokoyikisayo malunga ne-orgasm yabasetyhini; ukuba kuthetha ukuthini kubo xa besabelana ngesondo nomntu obhinqileyo, nokuba yeyasemzini okanye yintombi yabo okanye ngumfazi wabo, kwaye abanako ukwenza i-cum yakhe; yintoni eyenzela i-ego yabo; kwaye kuthetha ntoni oko kubomi babo bezesondo kunye nolwalamano lwabo. Kwakunomdla kakhulu kuba kunqabile kangangokuba sibona amadoda evula malunga nokuba semngciphekweni ngokwesondo kunye nokungaqiniseki okunje.
Okokugqibela, ndiphele ndinyathela i-Craigslist yomculi we-jerk-off. Ekugqibeleni ndiyifumene indoda enikezela ngeziphelo ezimnandi phantsi kwegama elithi Mnu. M, kodwa ngenxa yohlobo lwento ayinikelayo, kunye nebala elijikelezileyo, unxibelelwano luziva lungekho semthethweni kwaye lububulumko kunokuba bendilindele. Ekugqibeleni, nangona kunjalo, uhambisile.
Kuya kuvela, abasetyhini banokuba 'nesiphelo sabo esimnandi'-bafuna nje ukwazi ukuba bangasifumana njani.
Amanye amagama akhutshiwe kweli bali ngenxa yemfihlo.