Ukuba unamathela kwizinto kwiPee Hole yakho, izinto ezimbi ziya kwenzeka

Abafundi abangamadoda be-intanethi bawela imilenze yabo kwaye bakhupha i-grimace emanyeneyo yeentlungu xa ibali lenza ujikelezo malunga nendoda yase-Australia eneminyaka engama-70 wafumana ifolokhwe efakwe kwi-dong yakhe . Ngelixa uninzi lwabantu olufunda ingxelo (okanye olubi kakhulu, wabona imifanekiso ) ndandingenalo nofifi lokuba kutheni umntu enokuzama ukutyhala nantoni na - ngakumbi iqhekeza lesinqe - anyuse isinqanda mathe sakhe, abo kuthi bahlala bekwicala lobomi bayazi ukuba le yinto eqhelekileyo eyaziwa ngokuba 'kukukhala'.

Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene imfundo, khangela ixesha kwiXTube (I-NSFW, i-idiot), kunye nokuzonwabisa kwiividiyo ezahlukeneyo ezibonisa abafana bebeka zonke iintlobo ze-junk kwi-junk yabo. Ewe, ayisiyo nebhegi yam, nayo. Kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu ohambahamba ebeka iifolokhwe okanye iipensile okanye ezinye izinto zasendlini phezulu phaya zonke ngokungafuneki. Ungafumana Utyando lwe-urethral sounding kit malunga ne- $ 60 zisiwe ngqo emnyango wakho wangaphambili ukonwaba kwakho okugqwethekileyo. Ezi khithi zibandakanya iisilinda zesinyithi ezifanayo egudileyo, ngamanye amaxesha egobile, ezisetyenziswa koogqirha & apos; iiofisi. Oko kubonakala kukhuselekile kunemfoloko, kodwa bendifuna ukufumanisa ukuba ingaba ikhona na indlela yomlilo eqinisekileyo yokonwaba nomngxunya wakho wegiza ngaphandle kokuphela kwi-ER, ndiye ndatsalela umnxeba UGqirha Frank Spinelli , Isifundiswa saseManhattan kunye nombhali, ukuthetha malunga nokuziqhelanisa nokukhala kunye neengozi zako. MediaMente: Molo, Gqirha. Ndiyathanda ukuthetha malunga neenzuzo kunye neengozi zokuncamathelisa izinto kumngxunya wakho wepee, kungenjalo eyaziwa ngokuba 'kukukhala.' Yintoni injongo yokuhlinzwa kwezandi?
Spinelli: Unayo urethra, yiyo le nto ithwala umchamo kunye nencindi ephuma kwilungu lobudoda. Abanye abantu banokuba bancinci okanye bancinci, bathethe nje ngokwasemzimbeni. Ugqirha womchamo unokuyandisa i-urethra ngokusebenzisa izandi ezahlukeneyo. Bakhangela ukwandisa ububanzi, kwaye banokufumana isithintelo. Ufanele uhambe phantsi kangakanani?
Oko kuxhomekeke ekubeni sikhulu kangakanani isandi, kodwa awufuni ukuya kude kakhulu. Isetyenziswa njengesixhobo. Basebenzisa iicatheters ngendlela efanayo, ukungena kwisinyi ukuze ukwazi ukuphinda ukhumbule umntu othile womchamo xa besenza utyando. Zonke ezi zinto zenziwa phantsi kolwalathiso olunzima lwezonyango ngabantu abaqeqeshiweyo. Ucinga ukuba kutheni le nto abantu beyenza le nto ngendlela yesondo?
Basebenzisa isinyithi okanye iglasi kwaye bayifaka kwi-urethra, emva koko kukho uhlobo oluthile lokukhuthaza olubandakanyekayo. Andizukuthi le nto ikwindawo yesizathu sokuba abantu bathande ukubethwa. Kwaye kungaphaya komda wokunxibelelana ngokwesondo kwendalo. Kulungile phezulu apho ngobukhoboka. I & apos; s kudidi lwekinky. I & apos siyibonile kwiimuvi nakwimifanekiso. Andiyifumani, ngokobuqu, kwaye njengogqirha uyandoyikisa. Yintoni & apos eyoyikisayo ngayo?
Into endoyikisayo kukuba awusebenzisi ngokungafanelekanga ilungu lomzimba wakho kwaye, njengoko ubuya kulindela kuye nawuphi na umntu, awazi ukuba wenzani. Kanye njengokuba ugqirha engaqinisekanga kuba akakwazi ukubona into ayenzayo. Uthetha ukuthini?
Masithi sinesandi esivakalayo kwaye andidibani noxhathiso kwaye iyangena. Iqabane lam lingavuya kuba lingenile, kwaye ndingavuya kuba mna & ampos; ndimnika ukoneliseka. Kodwa into endinokuyenza kukudala iphecana elingaboniyo. Umfanekiso womngxuma kwidonathi, kwaye ndibeka isandi emngxunyeni. Xa u & apos; ubeka kwakhona isandi emngxunyeni, umfanekiso oya kudlula kwinxalenye yekhekhe yedonut. Lo ngumkhondo ongaboniyo. Ngoku ukuba uya ukhula kwaye ufuna ipayitatha nangasiphi na isizathu, kwaye bazakuyincamathisela kula maphepha angaboniyo kwaye abanakuphumelela ukukhupha umchamo kuwe. KULUNGILE. Ndinike ngqo, Gqirha: Zeziphi & zezona zinto zimbi zinokwenzeka?
Ewe, umzekelo endikunike wona wawungesandi esinyumba. Kuthekani malunga nokuba ii-apos azinyani? Uncamathela into enokuba emdaka komnye umntu & apos; s urethra . Unokufumana usulelo lomchamo wokuchama; unokufumana i-urethritis; ungazifumana ii-STDs… Uyazi ukuba yintoni i-Human Papillomavirus? Yintsholongwane ebangela iintsumpa kumalungu esini. Ndabona isigulana esasikhaliswa sisandi esimdaka kwaye wavelisa iintsumpa kumchamo wakhe owawusiya wonke umngxuma ongaphakathi kwilungu lobudoda. Yonke into oyibonileyo yayiziintsumpa xa ujonge ngaphakathi. Nkosi endimthandayo.
Xa ubuza ugqirha, beza nazo zonke izinto ezinokungahambi kakuhle. Ndiyazi ukuba kukho abantu abathi bayenza ukuba bazive bekhulu, kodwa ngokubhekisele kum & apos; ndicinga ngazo zonke izinto ezinokungahambi kakuhle. Xa oogqirha beyenza, bayifumana njani apho? Iitoni ze-lube?
Ewe kunjalo, kodwa loo mntu ngumntu oqeqeshiweyo. Xa unolwazi oluthile ngomzimba womntu, uyazi ukuba ungatyhaleli phambili. Khumbula, le ayiyiyo into eyenziwa rhoqo. Ngoku kukho iindawo ezivumela ukuba ujonge ngaphakathi kwi-urethra ukuze i-apos ingenziwa ngokungaboni. Zithini iziphumo zexesha elide kumntu owenza oku lonke ixesha?
Kuko ukwenzakala okuza nokugqwetha i-anatomy-unokuba ukhe uphume kumngxuma owahlukileyo, ungonakalisa ngaphakathi kwi-urethra, kwaye oko kunokubangela ukonakala, okunokubangela ukuba i-plaque yakheke kwi-urethra. Isizathu sePeyronie kunye neZifo, ezinokuthi zenze i-penis yakho ijika ngandlela thile. Enkosi, Gqirha. Undoyikisile ngokungqalileyo (hayi ngokoqobo). Ndiza kugcina izinto ngaphandle kwepenisi yam apha ngaphandle.

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