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Hee umntu. Umsindo ubangela uninzi lweetyhefu ezibangelwa bubudoda ehlabathini, ukusuka ekuzenzakaliseni ukuya ekuxhatshazweni, ngoko ke kulungile ukuba uziqwalasele ngokwakho malunga nendlela onomsindo ngayo. Ukwazi iimvakalelo zethu yinto amadoda ayityeshelayo rhoqo.
Umsindo ubonwa ngokubanzi njengemvakalelo yesibini - yimpendulo yendlela into ekwenza uzive ngayo. Umzekelo: Ukuba umntu othile uyakucaphukisa, uvakalelo oluphambili kunokuba lusizi, kodwa olo lusizi luye luphele ngomsindo. Ingcali yengqondo UJames Hawes uthi umba wale nkqubo kukuba emadodeni, umsindo unokuba kuphela kwemvakalelo esinayo yokubamba, ke siyazicinezela ezinye iingxaki ngayo, kufana nejelo.
Ukutshixa kumise uninzi lwezixhobo zethu zokudodobala. Ukuvalwa kwee-pubs, iivenkile zokucheba kunye neekofu kuthetha ukuba amadoda awakwazi ukubuthana kwaye aqhume umphunga weemvakalelo; Akukho ndawo zokuzivocavoca zithetha ukuba uninzi lwethu luxabiso (okanye ludwelisiwe) ngaphandle kwendawo yokutshisa iadrenaline kunye noxinzelelo lomzimba, kwaye kukwakho nelahleko yeeklabhu, oko kuthetha ukuba asinakuhamba sincokola i-shit kunye ne-chuffing cigs ngamaqabane ethu amatsha onke ubude bobusuku. Kwaye, uninzi lwethu lunobomi obuncitshisiweyo ekuhlaleni, ukungazinzi kwemali kunye / okanye sizalisa iintsuku ngomsebenzi owongezelelweyo. Abantu abaninzi abalala ngesondo . Ubomi khange bube mnandi nakubani na kutshanje.
Esi ayisosizathu sokuba nomsindo- sesona sizathu sokuba uvakalelwe kukuba kulula ukufumana umsindo ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Kodwa ukulungisa kunye nokugcina iithebhu kulomsindo kubaluleke ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Kukho iindlela ezimbalwa zokwenza oku. I-Hawes ikholelwa kulwazi lomsindo kunolawulo, kwaye ithi kufuneka siziqonde ngakumbi iimvakalelo zethu imini yonke, hayi umsindo kuphela, kodwa ixhala, usizi, ukwenzakala, ukuphoxeka okanye iintloni. Ekugqibeleni, umsindo kukuzikhusela ngokweemvakalelo ezinzima, uyacacisa.
Ukuba singafunda ukuqhubekeka neemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo-nokuba kungokuncamathela kwifilimu elungileyo kunye nokutya ukutya okuthuthuzelayo okanye ukuthetha nepal xa sixhalabile- kuyakuncipha ukwakha ngaphakathi kuthi ukuze ekugqibeleni sikhuphe umsindo.
Ubomi'Ingxaki yekota-yobomi' Ibe yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kumadoda aseMillennial
Meehika Ileta 01.01.21Isazi ngengqondo yezonyango uGqirha Siobhan McCarthy wongeza ngelithi ukwazi iimpawu zakho zokuqala zomsindo yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekunciphiseni ifuthe layo kuwe nakwabanye abakungqongileyo.
Isenokuba yingqindi evaliweyo okanye intloko ebuhlungu, utshilo. Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba ufumene ezo mpawu zibomvu zeflegi okanye isimilo unokwenza into eya kukunceda. Oku kungathatha uhlobo lokuhambahamba okanye ukuhlamba, ezantsi ukuya kutshiza ubuso bakho ngamanzi abandayo. IiHawes zibiza eli qhinga njengonqumamo olungxamisekileyo kwaye zikwagxininisa ukubaluleka kokukwenza.
Ukuba ukhathazekile ngokubetha umatrasi, mhlawumbi awunguye umntu ombi. Ukuba ukucudisa ibhola yoxinzelelo okanye umqamelo awukwenzi okubi kuwe, nakubani na okanye nantoni na eyenye, ayisiyiyo eyona ndlela imbi yokujamelana nayo. Kodwa khumbula, izinto zinokunyuka. Uthintelo lunyango, ngethemba lokuba ukwazi ngakumbi ngengqumbo enetyhefu kuya kukunceda ukuba uyazi ngakumbi indlela yokunciphisa. Ukuba umsindo wakho uqala ukuchaphazela nabani na ongomnye, kunyanzelekile ukuba ungenelele kwaye uyeke. Iindlela zasimahla zokufuna uncedo zibandakanya ukuthetha neYGP okanye iqela lenkxaso elifana AmaSamariya . Iminqweno emihle ndoda.
Hee umntu. Ndinomsebenzi oqhelekileyo osekwe eofisini. Ayisixinzelelo, kwaye ndiyavana noogxa bam kodwa andinako ukushukumisa imvakalelo andikhange ndibone enye indlela. Ndiziva ngathi ndidlale ngendlela ekhuselekileyo kwaye lixesha lokuba ndingabuyi.
Ndiziva ndiphantsi kakhulu. Andizihloniphi kwakhona. Ndivakalelwa ngathi akukho nto ndiyenzileyo ngaphaya kokuzinza kwemali. Ndingabamkela njani ubomi bam?
Hee umntu. Ukuziva ngathi usendleleni yobomi engalunganga yinto uninzi lwabantu olusokola nayo ngaxa lithile. Kodwa ngelixa ukuzithemba okuphantsi kunye neengcinga ezikhoyo zinokwenzeka kuye wonke umntu, uphando lubonisa ukuba, amadoda awonelisekanga ngumsebenzi kwaye ukoneliseka bubomi ngaphezu kwabafazi. Olu dano luxhaphake kuyo yonke ingeniso, imfundo, kunye namaqela engqesho.
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UDaisy Jones, uHannah Ewens 08.09.19Ke yintoni ukulungisa? UJack kufanelekile , ugqirha wengqondo we-gestalt, uthi umba wokungaziva ngathi ukwindlela ethile ebomini uyafana nalowo ubuya kujongana nawo ngaphambili xa umdala kwaye kwakhona xa uthatha umhlala-phantsi. Ukwenza ngaphaya kwelinye icala, utshilo, kungokufumana izinto ezikunika imvakalelo yenjongo kunye nenjongo. Ewe, kulula ukutsho kunokuba ukwenzile xa sele uphantsi.
Sonke kufuneka siqale kwenye indawo. Abantu abaye bafumanisa ubomi obumangalisayo nabo benze njalo. Ingcali yeengqondo UAndrew Bridgewater ithi kulula ukubanjiswa ziimvakalelo zokuzijongela phantsi kunye nokungabikho kwempumelelo, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi kukho into engekhoyo yokuba kufuneka sithathe uhlobo lokutsiba okuninzi [ukutshintsha iindlela zethu], kodwa ii & apos azikaze zithande oko. Endaweni yoko, uthi, inyathelo elincinci linokuba nefuthe elikhulu.
Masiqale ngomsebenzi wakho. Ukukholelwa ukuba umsebenzi wakho kufuneka ube ngowona mthombo wesazisi okanye umdla ungalinciphisa ilizwe, amanqaku afanelekileyo. Kulungile ukusebenza kwenye indawo ongayifumani ngokukodwa okunentsingiselo. Endaweni yoko, imalunga nokuchitha ixesha lakho elongezelelekileyo usenza izinto ozonwabelayo kwaye uzanelisa. Mhlawumbi uyamazi umntu onje: Bazalisa amaphepha e-Excel phakathi evekini kwaye bazobe iinoveli zemizobo ngelixa beqhuba ii-marathons ze-ultra mpelaveki.
Kukho iindlela ezisebenzayo zokukhaba utshintsho kwimo engqongileyo kunye nokukhulula amaqhina kwidesika ephethwe ngongxowankulu ohleli kuyo yonke imihla. Babandakanya ukuthetha nabahlobo ukuze babone ukuba bacinga ntoni ukuba ubonakala unomdla wokwenene, kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo uzibuze ukuba ungayichitha nini imini yakho xa ungenanto ikubambayo.
Iminqweno yakho isenokungakwazi ukwenza imali okanye ilingane nenkcazo yomsebenzi-kodwa nokuba iyenzeka, akufuneki ukuba sifumane ezona zinto zingqinayo emsebenzini. Ukuba uyazi ukuba ziziphi izinto ozithandayo, kukho indawo yokuqala. Ukuba akunjalo, abahlobo banokuthi bakuncede ufumanise ukuba ubuzimisele nini okanye nini ngaphambili.
Nguwe kuphela onokuphucula indlela oziva ngayo. Ukuvuleleka kwiingcinga zakho yindlela entle yokukhawulezisa inkqubo. Ukucwangcisa kwangaphambili ngelixa uvala kunye nokuthatha ixesha lokucinga malunga nento oyifunayo ngenene kunokukunceda ukuba wenze ubomi obunokukhupha ngenene ebhedini kusasa. Gcina indoda yokholo.